Elopement Examples Ceremony for D. & K. 1/2020 Black Hawk
.....We have gathered here, on this beautiful day to celebrate the creation of a new marriage. In marriage, two individuals unite your lives, your destinies, your loves into one. You are vowing to nourish each other in spirit, mind, and body. Marriage gives you a sense of security so you can survive the challenges and celebrate the joys that life brings.
With joy there does come sadness, just like there is always a sunset after a dawn.
This is also an opportunity to remember those who are not with us today, either through reasons of their own, or because they have traveled down the corridors of time without us. Let’s take just a moment and reminisce on the memories that you have with those special and wonderful people who have been a treasured part of your lives. But this isn’t a time to be full of sorrow, think on those times that you have shared a meal, an adult beverage, a laugh or even a hug. They may not be here with us today, but we always carry them in our hearts...
Ceremony for A. & J. 9/5/2019 Estes Park
......Again, we know, that true life is lived when changes occur. This is a change in your relationship, in your lives, and how you view each other. When you first met you had that instant bond, today is the day you strengthen that bond through marriage. You both have given much thought and considerations that guided you to this decision to marry. You both know each other’s faults and strengths, and you set each other free to fully be yourselves. Your devotion to one another gives you the courage to face all the challenges life brings. Always remember that the wisest couples have hope. They believe in the power of loving marriages. Arguments and obstacles will breach times of great happiness. But all moments and events are conduits to learning more about the world, oneself, and each other. In marriage, you should therefore become more and more affectionate, knowledgeable, and committed as you age apart and together. Marriage is indeed about feeling the joyous, fluttering thrill you feel for one another. But it also has a deeper meaning. It is about offering unconditional sympathy, understanding, and care. It is about cultivating love and wisdom, so they may be perched on your shoulders from this day forward.
As F. Burton Howard once said-
"Marriage: If you want something to last forever, you treat it differently. You shield it and protect it. You never abuse it. You don't expose it to the elements. You don't make it common or ordinary. If it ever becomes tarnished, you lovingly polish it until it gleams like new. It becomes special because you have made it so, and it grows more beautiful and precious as time goes by." ......
Ceremony for T. & J. Garden of the Gods Park
.... T. and J. marriage is the promise between two people who love each other, who trust that love, who honor one another as individuals in that togetherness, and who wish to spend the rest of their lives together. It enables the two separate souls to share their desires, longings, dreams, and memories, their joys and sorrows, and to help each other through all uncertainties of life. A strong marriage also nurtures each of you as separate individuals and allows you to maintain your unique identity and grow in your own way through the years ahead. It is a safe haven for each of you to become your best self while together you become better than ever could be alone.
You are adding to your life not only the affection of each other, but also the companionship and blessing of a deep trust. You are agreeing to share strength, responsibilities and love. To make this relationship work, therefore, takes more than love. It takes trust, to know in your hearts that you want only the best for each other. It takes dedication, to stay open to one another, to learn and grow, even when it is difficult to do so. And it takes faith, to go forward together without knowing what the future holds for you both.