Ladies at the Flemming Mansion
(Abridged)
We are gathered here today to witness and celebrate the marriage of L. W. and J. H. Today is a celebration of love, of commitment, of friendship, of family, and of two people who are in it together forever. We are not here to mark the start of a relationship. We are here to recognize a bond that already exists. L.. and J. have been together almost nine years, so we have come together to bear witness to the bond that has grown between them. Today, they will affirm this bond formally and publicly and they would like to share this affirmation of love with their friends and family. L. and J. hope that they can mark their union not only by celebrating the love between themselves, but by also celebrating the love between all here today. Up to this point their love has been nurtured privately. In many ways, that deepest connection is private and between them alone, but today, the promise of that bond is made public.
So when L. and J. thought of gathering people together, they wanted to see not only the faces of the individuals they have loved over the course of their lives, they wanted to put you together, shoulder to shoulder to form a whole – a single solid entity – a group that will witness the declaration of their union. They believe that the strength of this group will reinforce and protect their private union. And in return, they have a promise for you. They promise to do their part to nurture long standing relationships and forge new connections between those gathered here.
L.. and J. for almost nine years, you have built a strong foundation for your relationship based on honesty and respect. You have found joy in one another’s company, and you have become better, more fulfilled people because of your connection. You have been able to stay together through the varied challenges of life because of your shared values, humor, history, and unconditional love for one another. As long as you maintain these qualities, you will have a long and successful marriage.